If you’re ready to no longer be at war with your past religious beliefs in your dating and sex life…

You’re in the right place!

Since You’re Here, You Are Probably Wondering:

Will I ever stop feeling dirty when it comes to my sexuality?

Is it possible to find a relationship where I feel safe and secure?

Can I explore and experiment without shame?

…and what you really want is to be able to reclaim your sexuality and experience joy and fulfillment without being faced with insurmountable guilt from your past beliefs.


What if it was possible to deconstruct the beliefs handed to you by purity culture so you can finally feel at peace with yourself and excited for your future path in love and relationships…

…instead of locked in a spiral of debilitating internal shame and conflict?

Great News: You’re looking at that possibility right now.

INTRODUCING:

Peace Post Purity Culture

A course to help purity culture survivors align their current, spoken beliefs with their lived reality as they reimagine relationships and reclaim their sexuality in spite of the pressure of their past indoctrination.

This curriculum was created by a licensed therapist who is also a purity culture survivor.

The lessons and exercises are rooted in well-researched religious trauma therapy practices, so you can uncover how to eliminate your constant shame and guilt and get your body, brain, and behavior on board as you step into a life designed by your new beliefs.

If you desire a new experience in sex, dating, and relationships, but your past in purity culture is keeping you stuck, this is for you.

“COMPASSIONATE, YET STRUCTURED METHODOLOGY”

“Thank you so much for taking the time to approach this in an honest and applicable way. I’ve been feeling vulnerable, healing trauma I’ve felt in my nervous system for over 10 years. Some days I question what is wrong with me, but when I hear from professionals who take a compassionate, yet structured methodology for this kind of healing, I return to empowerment.”

EVEN THOUGH YOU’VE CHANGED YOUR BELIEFS

Purity Culture is still stealing your peace

When a realization occurs that you don’t hold what you used to as truth, it can be extremely jarring.

The reality is this:

Deciding NOT to believe or abide by something you used to is only the first step in the process of deconstructing your old religious foundation.

Then you enter this tricky limbo zone where your spoken belief has changed, but your living stays the same.

That’s incongruence.

And most often? Incongruence causes shame or discomfort.

This happens for a few different reasons:

IT COULD BE BODILY.

This is when your body LITERALLY rejects your new actions because of a deeply embedded belief system. It results in constant nervous system dysregulation and a physical aversion to taking action in a way that might be deemed “bad” by your past religion.

IT COULD BE MORAL.

Even though your mind can SAY that you believe something new, you might still hold the ingrained feeling that “something bad will happen if I do [insert thing you’ve been told is wrong here]” or even “I’ll go to hell if I [insert action that disagrees with your past faith here].”

IT COULD BE RELATIONAL.

You might be afraid you’ll lose the people closest to you. It’s common to surround yourself with people who believe the same things as you, but nobody talks about what to do with that community when your beliefs shift.

Whether you’re feeling one of these as the main reason holding you back from aligning your actions with your value system, or if you feel a bit of all of them, there may not be a way out… but there’s definitely a way through.

TAKE A DEEP BREATH

It’s 100% possible to live in complete peace with your updated value-system.

In order to get through the constant conflict you’re experiencing in your dating and sex life and into the acceptance and alignment you really desire…

You need to unearth your purity culture indoctrination.

There may be some things you KNOW you don’t want to hold as truth any longer. But moving into a life propelled by your new beliefs is easier said than done, as evidenced by how guilty you feel every time you take an action against what you no longer believe.

First, you have to realize the depth of what you’re working with.

You need practices to help deal with the stress on your system now.

As you gradually dismantle what’s governing your subconscious from the inside out, you’ll face a lot of stress and incongruence that can manifest in symptoms like panic, anxiety, and self-sabotage. It’s essential to have coping tools to help you in the moment as you aim to adjust your long-term reality.

You need a safe space to experiment with how you want to live.

Now is not the time for guidance from someone who wants you to believe the same thing they do. Instead, you need someone who will give you the tools to build a safe haven inside your own self-trust. That is the only thing that will allow you to try new things on without risking shame shutting you down and sending you backwards.

I’LL BE THAT GUIDE FOR YOU

I’m Hannah, a Purity Culture Survivor.
And a Religious Trauma Therapist.

I’ve dedicated my work to helping high-demand religion survivors reimagine their life in light of their own beliefs.

Specifically, I help you unpack and work through your own religious trauma and deconstruct the indoctrination that’s holding you back from living the life that aligns with your truth.

If that seems like a very specific niche, it is. But I’m passionate about it because I’ve been through my own deconstruction journey as well.

Most breakdowns of faith start with a feeling or an experience. Mine started with books.

I’ve got a lot of letters behind my name: LICSW, MSW, MTS
(I’m even a 200 hour yoga instructor and meditation instructor)

All of that means I’ve spent a lot of time in books, study, and in DEEP contemplation about the meaning I hold for my life here on earth and after.

It was ironically during my theological studies that I both deconstructed my past faith and reconstructed my new version of spirituality.

I’ve been through the bodily confusion, the pinball of brain beliefs, and the overall “foundation crumbling” feeling that comes with realizing what you grew up believing is not what you want to move forward with.

And although I don’t think you’re ever COMPLETELY on the other side, I will say that now I live a life of carefree travel, alignment, and a continuous dismantling of expectations placed on my life by anyone but me.

I align my life by the Italian motto:
the sweetness of doing nothing.

A guiding light that my own former high control religion background would never dare to dream about.

Because there’s nothing more antithetical to purity culture than soaking in pleasure for no reason except that you can.

And now I get to support clients with religious trauma to reclaim and strengthen their “I have a choice in this life” muscles, too.

My primary mission is to make space for you to figure out your new value systems, irrespective of my beliefs.

So, will I tell you what I believe? No.

But I will help you come to terms with what YOU want to believe.

Then, together we’ll uncover a path for you to start living in alignment with whatever YOU decide.

“HANNAH’S CONTENT HELPED ME BREAK FREE”

Absolutely love! Thanks for making great content that helps to heal from spiritual trauma. I’m treated like the prodigal son by my old church friends and like the girl who’s never done anything by new people I meet. Your content really helps break free and set up a life with all the values I want and none of the BS.”

What are you ready to take hold of?

What is it time to leave behind?

Maybe you feel ashamed about your sexual history and you’re ready to leave that shame behind.

Maybe you feel embarrassed by having no dating history.

Maybe you are tired of feeling insecure and wanting to hide your body.

Maybe you’re rejecting the gender role you were given, but you’re unsure what to do next.


It could be even more specific.

Maybe you feel dirty after sex and you want to change that.

Maybe you want to let yourself go during an orgasm with your partner.

Maybe you don’t want to have children.

Maybe you crave safe and committed relationships.

Maybe you want to love and accept your queer identity.

If any of these things have you furiously nodding your head…

But you have the slightest flash of “oh, but I can’t REALLY do that…”

That means your BODY is using your INDOCTRINATED BELIEFS to keep you from your PRESENT DESIRES.

And I’d really love to help you step out of that back and forth battle field so you can breathe again and start to just BE who you want.

So you can finally step into your chosen sexually liberated future.

WHAT’S INSIDE THE PROGRAM?

Peace Post Purity Culture

If you desire a new freedom in sex, dating, and relationships, but your past in purity culture is keeping you stuck, this is for you.


In just 5 carefully-designed modules, this course will help you unpack your purity culture indoctrination and begin to align your current, spoken beliefs with your lived reality.

Then you can resolve the shame and fear that comes from living a life separate from what you were told was “the only right way” for so long.

This curriculum was created by a licensed therapist who is also a purity culture survivor.

The lessons and exercises are rooted in well-researched religious trauma therapy practices, so you can uncover how to eliminate your constant shame and guilt and get your body, brain, and behavior on board as you step into a life designed by your new beliefs.

Go from internal conflict between sexuality and spirituality → To living with the peace that comes with belief and life alignment

THE CURRICULUM

MODULE 1:

Defining Religious Trauma & Identifying Indoctrination

    • Uncover common signs of Religious Trauma, many of which you may have experienced

    • Understand the distinction between professed beliefs and lived beliefs and why this matters for your journey

    • Unveil embedded beliefs & indoctrination tactics that are keeping you from the peace of alignment

    You’ll walk away with a new perspective on what you once believed and why it’s silently keeping you stuck in the in-between.

MODULE 2:

Grieving Your Past in a Healthy Way

    • Learn the science & magic of the nervous system and why it needs regulating

    • Equip you with an in-the-moment toolbox of nervous system regulation practices

    • Pinpoint conflicting emotions & memories so you can untangle nuanced experiences that might hold you back

    You’ll walk away with the awareness of how your body handles fear, shame, and lack of alignment and physical tools to help you cope as you experience the fundamental shift you desire.

MODULE 3:

Reimagine Relationships with Satisfaction in Mind

    • Take inventory of the impact religion has had on your ability to be in healthy relationship

    • Abandon the misconceptions of boundaries so you can begin to cultivate healthy relationships

    • Decode “forgiveness” and find new, appropriate language to help you release, let go, and find self-compassion

    You’ll walk away with a clear vision of what mutually beneficial, healthy relationships can look like for you and specific steps to move toward that reality in your life.

MODULE 5:

Creating Authentic & Empowering Spirituality

    • Recover your meaning and purpose in life, fueled by fresh context and newfound freedom

    • Branch out into new sacred spaces in an effort to find what resonates with you on a soul level

    • Access your intuition and tune into your gut as you learn to trust yourself instead of relying on everyone else

    You’ll walk away with the excitement that comes with direction and an invigorated sense of exploration as you finally let yourself walk down the path of the life you design according to your beliefs.

MODULE 4:

Reclaiming Sexuality in Life & Society

  • Illuminate the depth of purity culture and both the obvious and undetectable impact it’s had on your life

    Unpack the various types and levels of discrimination within your religious experience

    Establish your first steps toward reclaiming your own sexuality in line with the beliefs you choose

    You’ll walk away with light shed on embedded beliefs surrounding sexuality, providing clarity on new beliefs you want to both profess and live out.

Plus!

The Bonus Training Vault

Designed to help you navigate your real life and new version of spirituality after making peace with your religious past.

You’ll get bonus training on:

  • How to Make Friends as an Adult After Religion

  • Introduction to World Religions

  • Mystical & Contemplative Traditions Deep Dive

AND you even get support inside via Private Facebook Group

You’ll get access to a private group comprised of individuals who are traversing the same territory as you. You’ll be able to connect with peers who can relate to your current journey and also get more direct access to me (Hannah) to clear up any blocks around the exercises you’re employing to step into more peace and less guilt or pressure.

This is a space where you can:

  • Connect with others who are working to make peace with their religious past and move into the life they desire

  • Ask questions and clear up blocks around the exercises you’ll be employing to step into your new-value-driven life

  • Have a safe space to process and celebrate your progress as you do the work that no one can see, but that will change your life

WHAT’S THE INVESTMENT?

Let go of your purity culture past
INVEST IN THE LIBERATION OF FUTURE YOU

ONE-PAYMENT
(most popular!)

$697

  • 5 Modules to help you go from in conflict with your own beliefs to living in aligned freedom after religious trauma

  • Journal prompts + practices to bring your shifts from mind to body and spirit

  • Free Community Support via Private Facebook Group to give you space for connection and clarity as you set out on this journey

  • Bonus Trainings designed to extend your journey and keep you moving in the direction you intentionally choose
    (only available for a LIMITED TIME!)

TWO-PAYMENTS
(cash-flow-friendly)

2 payments of $350

  • 5 Modules to help you go from in conflict with your own beliefs to living in aligned freedom after religious trauma

  • Journal prompts + practices to bring your shifts from mind to body and spirit

  • Free Community Support via Private Facebook Group to give you space for connection and clarity as you set out on this journey

  • Bonus Trainings designed to extend your journey and keep you moving in the direction you intentionally choose
    (only available for a LIMITED TIME!)

“Thank you for helping me process my faith transition!”

IT MIGHT BE THE FIRST TIME IN YOUR LIFE

THIS IS COMPLETELY UP TO YOU

But sometimes the decisions with the most potential benefit still weigh so heavy on our brains that we don’t decide at all.

You may feel alone on this journey, but you don’t have to stay that way.

So I’m here to help you evaluate your options and make a choice.

OPTION 1:
KEEP DOING WHAT YOU’RE DOING

  • Continue to live a different life in your mind than you act out in your days

  • Keep Googling or searching up things that *might* help on social media

  • Wait for permission to truly change your life in the way you desire
    (this is THAT PERMISSION)

I won’t lie, this is easier in the short run.

Change is hard, but living out of alignment is hard, too. And the longer you do it, the more your incongruence will build up in your nervous system until you reach a breaking point.

At that point, you’ll either return to what you once knew, or you’ll search “Theology Therapist” on Instagram and end up right back here.

OPTION 2:
GET QUALIFIED HELP + TRY A NEW WAY

  • Decide that you get to live a life that feels peaceful and inspiring

  • Shift focus from what you’re leaving behind to what you’re moving toward

  • Take your value-system into your own hands allowing what’s important to YOU to become your North Star

Change takes bravery.

It takes an unrelenting willingness to stay focused on the vision for your life in front of you as you wade through the muddy waters of belief change that reflects in your behaviors. You’re literally carving new pathways in your brain. But the best way to do that is armed with a toolbox of research-backed, proven practices and an experienced guide to light your path.

Which sounds like what you want more at this very moment?

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Change isn’t easy. Questions are normal.

  • Getting the hard-hitter question out of the way, RIGHT away. I want to make this very clear: I am not a “christian counselor.” I actually don’t ever share my own beliefs with my therapy clients or students because I think it would be entirely contrary to the journey they (you) are going through. However, my background in theology and religion means that I can help you navigate in and out of the indoctrination of various religions you might be moving away from while helping you construct your own version of faith, if that’s something that appeals to your future vision.

  • That depends! People learn very differently, but in total we have about 7-10 hours of lessons and a 100 + page workbook with interactive exercises. The content is very manageable while also being comprehensive. What is more important than finishing the course quickly is implementing the material from each lesson into daily life, intentionally, over and over again, without losing momentum.

  • Yes! You can go as fast or as slow as you’d like through this material. Regardless of speed, you can watch and rewatch for the lifetime of the course.

  • You do not need a therapist to go alongside this course. It can be a great addition to therapy to bring what you are working through in this course and have an external sounding board or qualified outside observer to highlight unconscious patterns, injustices, etc.

    If you don’t have a therapist and realize in going through this course that you would benefit from that I recommend you check these directories if you are in the US: https://zencare.co/ https://www.reclamationcollective.com/find-a-therapist-1

    Check first with your insurance to determine if you have a PPO plan (yay out of network benefits!) and now you can find a specialist who is a GREAT fit for you and your needs without the long wait time.

  • Yes! You do NOT have to go “no contact” with your family or prior religious community if you don’t choose (hint: most people don’t). It isn’t black or white like religion says it is. With some work on boundaries and confidence in your own beliefs, you can find the right kind of relationship that feels satisfying.

    In cases where safety is at risk, you should separate yourself from the person/community where you feel threatened, contact the necessary authorities, and consider “no contact”. In these cases, peace is found once healing has happened and no longer threatened.

  • Yes, while there may be specific references to “church” or other christian icons, the language used is attempted to be inclusive of a multitude of religions. If I am speaking from my own experience or an example from my own experience it will be explicitly christian.

  • Yes, this course is designed for the person who has already had their crisis of faith and but still finds spirituality/religiosity/the sacred to be very important. This course is not only meant to ease the distress of daily life so you can get your life back on track but also to provide an entry point back into spirituality on your terms, in a way that isn’t triggering.

  • Yes, you sure do!

    When it comes to support from me, it’s outside of my ability as a licensed therapist to provide personal advice about your set of circumstances as you set out on this journey. HOWEVER, what I can do is provide support to help you get the most out of the exercises and practices throughout the course, which will guide you long after you finish the modules.

    For that reason, you’ll get access to a private group comprised of individuals who are traversing the same territory as you. You’ll be able to connect with peers who can relate to your current journey and also get more direct access to me (Hannah) to clear up any blocks around the exercises you’re employing to step into more peace and less guilt or pressure

Ready to join me inside?